…with my hair. I am now entering into what will be my third year without a relaxer. There are so many styles and methods I want to try so much but I am more than a little scared. There’s this beautiful beautiful reddish-brown hue that I’m aching to try (not as a full dye job but maybe in the back or just the tips). I also want to get my hair pressed. I am justified a bit in my fear. The last real hair risk I took was six years ago with the relaxer and the payoff was spotty. Stress is an ever present hair-destroyer (even now) for me and it makes me fear any fallout (pun intended). I would take the first step if I could find the ever rare natural hair stylists or a reasonable professional that adheres to my demands (pull that hear what I said and still do what they want shizz) and won’t destroy my hair. I’ve just gotten my hair right where I want and I don’t want to start from scratch.